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In the previous blog article, we explored the alarming statistics surrounding sexual assault, the importance of understanding consent, and the steps toward establishing healthy and safe relationships. Unfortunately, the journey doesn’t end with awareness.
Nearly half a million people were sexually assaulted in 2023 in the US. That’s JUST in 2023.
In fact, 1 in 5 women and 1 in 71 men in the United States have been raped in their lifetime. This is a conservative estimate, as many cases go unreported due to fear, shame, and distrust of the system. Given these statistics, it is reasonable to conclude that, on average, every person in the US knows at least one survivor of sexual assault.
For survivors of sexual assault, the path to healing is often long and complex, involving not only physical recovery but also emotional and psychological healing. One critical aspect of this recovery is understanding Rape Trauma Syndrome (RTS)—a form of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) that survivors of sexual assault often experience.
In this blog, we will delve into what Rape Trauma Syndrome is, why people develop it, and the various treatment options available for survivors. This information can be crucial for survivors and their loved ones, as well as for anyone seeking to gain a deeper understanding of the lasting impact of sexual assault that affects so many people they personally know.
Rape Trauma Syndrome (RTS) is a term that was coined by Dr. Ann Wolbert Burgess and Dr. Lynda Lytle Holmstrom in the 1970s to describe the emotional, psychological, and physical symptoms that a survivor of sexual assault experiences following the trauma.
So what happened in the 1970s? Women began to roar.
Guided by feminist thought and collective consciousness, women began to congregate, demonstrate, and mobilize. In fact, the anti-rape movement and affiliated organizations held events called Speak Outs in the early 1970s in which survivors recounted their experiences. The rape survivor movement literally grew out of the feminist movement.
Drs. Burgess and Holstrom first introduced RTS in 1974 after interviewing 92 adult female rape victims. This was ground-breaking research because it was only two years earlier in 1972 that the first rape crisis centers were actually founded in the US.
RTS is actually a form of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), a mental health condition that arises after someone has been exposed to a life-threatening or deeply disturbing event. While PTSD can result from various types of trauma, RTS specifically refers to the aftermath of sexual violence.
RTS is not a single, uniform response to assault but rather a collection of symptoms that can manifest in different ways depending on the individual. Some common symptoms of RTS include:
It’s important to recognize that RTS manifests differently in each survivor, and the symptoms may vary in intensity and duration. Some individuals may experience a delayed onset of symptoms, meaning that they don’t show significant signs of trauma until months or even years after the assault.
We are raised on fairy tales. We watch TV shows, read books, and watch movies about love and passion. We are raised to believe that our bodies will feel good during sex, sharing intimacy, having orgasms, and making babies.
When a sexual assault happens, survivors are not just battling the demons of the assault, recovering from the brutal physical trauma. They are also battling the reality that rape is not their love story. They were promised love and intimacy, but instead they experienced pain and anguish.
Rape Trauma Syndrome is the result of the overwhelming psychological, emotional, and physical impact of sexual assault. Sexual assault can make survivors feel violated, to the point where they lose their sense of safety, autonomy, and trust in others. When someone experiences sexual assault, their world can feel shattered, leaving them with a host of traumatic memories and emotional turmoil. In short, their fairy tale has been shattered.
Several factors contribute to RTS:
Recovering from Rape Trauma Syndrome requires time, support, and a comprehensive approach to healing. Fortunately, due to the groundbreaking work of Drs. Burgess and Holstrom and the thousands of well-intentioned and dedicated health care professionals since the 70s, there are several treatment options available to help survivors address the psychological and emotional wounds left by sexual assault. The right treatment plan will depend on the survivor’s specific needs and the severity of their symptoms.
Therapy is one of the most effective ways to treat RTS. Several types of therapeutic approaches can be particularly beneficial for survivors of sexual assault:
While therapy is a central component of healing from RTS, some survivors may benefit from medication, especially if they are experiencing significant symptoms of anxiety, depression, or PTSD. Medications such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or other antidepressants can help manage symptoms of depression and anxiety. However, medication should always be prescribed by a healthcare professional and used in conjunction with therapy for the best results.
Support groups (not to be confused with group therapy) offer a sense of community and connection with others who understand the unique challenges of sexual assault survival. These groups can provide survivors with emotional support, as well as a space to share coping strategies and resources. Support groups can be particularly helpful for survivors who may feel isolated or ashamed of their trauma.
Along with formal treatment, survivors of sexual assault can benefit from self-care practices that promote overall well-being. Regular exercise, mindfulness meditation, yoga, and other stress-reducing activities can help survivors manage anxiety and emotional distress. Engaging in creative outlets, like art or journaling, can also provide a therapeutic release.
Sexual assault and resulting Rape Trauma Syndrome can be debilitating. Treatment for RTS, including therapy, medication, support groups, and self-care, can help survivors heal and reclaim their sense of safety, autonomy, and well-being.
If you are a victim of sexual assault (or you believe that someone you care about is a victim), here are the steps you can take to help. Remember, trauma can appear and reappear without warning, so it does not matter if the sexual assault was was yesterday or 20 years ago, you are encouraged to take action.
For survivors of sexual assault, it’s important to remember that healing is a process, and there is no “right” way to recover. If you or someone you know has experienced sexual violence or is currently experiencing PTSD, anxiety, depression, or an eating disorder as a result of sexual trauma, there IS hope. The licensed therapists at New Hope provide trauma-informed care and treatment for PTSD, including somatic experiencing, trauma-focused therapy, exposure therapy, and cognitive restructuring. Each person’s journey is unique, but with the right support and treatment, recovery is possible.
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